How to deal with husband havibg OCD?

My husband always had OCD for cleaning but it wasn't so severe until my parents arrived (for my delivery a month ago) and they created really bad mess in the washroom, kitchen etc. I mean my whole house was cluttered in just one day of their arrival. My husband tried to cope with his OCD but sometimes unknowingly he would start doing the cleaning himself. He would never bother anyone, but do the cleaning himself. My earlier post would have made you clear how my parents left me abandoned just after 5 days my baby was born and abused my husband because of his OCD even though I had told them beforehand about his condition.

Now after the baby has born, his OCD has increased too much that it's bothering in our day to day life. I'm getting pissed off at him as he wants to cook with cleanliness, do everything with cleanliness. For him cleaning is important because we have a small newborn and he doesn't want the baby to get sick.

Im already exhausted with sleepless nights, emotionally upset by my parents who left me when I needed them the most and now my husband's increased OCD. I've tried to explain to him which leads into major arguments and fights. He thinks he is right being concerned for the baby and calls me lazy for not doing anything but making excuse of the baby (says when we have argument). For me he doesn't even understand my situation and mindset. He knows that I don't sleep at night but I can see how his OCD is over his mind. He is a loving husband and never behaved so oddly before until the day my parents arrived and created the mess. How to handle him? Conversations aren't helping at all :(

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How to deal with husband havibg OCD?