My friend is fedup of her in-laws...

Guys, my friend is in a situation where she doesn't know what to do? How to react? She is really frustrated and angry. She is pregnant also. Actually she has been married into a family where her in-laws are cheap type of people. I mean they belong to some remote place and know nothing about living a good life. She has come from from an educated and mannered family whereas the in-laws are ill-mannered in many ways and don't have common sense of how to talk or behave or dress-up etc. In a way they are dependent on their son for everything and for every decision because they themselves have no knowledge about living in society etc. It is because they have lived their entire life at the remote place where their are mostly small-headed people and had not much exposure to the outside world.

Right now they have come to her place. First of all they speak amongst themselves slowly slowly and in a way which is not understandable by her. Her sister-in-law has also come. She is married and has bad relations with her in-laws. My friends in-laws are also of the nature of fighting like illiterate. Her mother-in-law is actually illiterate and sister-in-law though educated behaves nothing less than an illiterate lady. Always in fighting mood and speaking badly.

From morning to night they will talk about the sister-in-laws in-laws and speak ill about them, making fun of them etc etc. Actually the way my friends in-laws are, the same way her sister-in-laws in-laws are, cheap illiterate types. My friend doesn't like these cheap talks and stays away. But whenever she is back home from work, the same kind of negative, fighting discussions are going on and she feels really frustrated. Also they are talking in their village language which is so backward types which my friend is not liking to hear everyday. She has really got fed-up of all this. She avoids her in-laws as much as possible, just sits and take food with them, then goes to sleep without uttering much. she doesn't want to get involve in all this stupidity of her in-laws. She is worried about the child also, what kind of environment will he/her get. She doesn't want, even for a moment, to leave her yet to be born kid in the hands of her in-laws who are so cheap and stupid types.

They even talk bad about her at her back. They take care not to say ill in front of her, this is their behaviour, to say ill at the back of others. She knows it and has in a way reciprocated her in-laws also that she doesn't care whatever people say about her as she knows what she is. My friend is intelligent and strong headed. She just try to avoid as much as possible her in-law family so as to not get disturbed by their stupid and manner less activities. She also tries to keep her husband happy. Her husband is nice person but since he has come from that environment, he cannot understand that cheapness in his parents behaviour. Sometimes my friend even hate it when her husband is involved in this cheap talks.

Guys, she is trying to relax herself by taking to novel reading, concentrating on positives like her career, her kids well-being, talking to her parents and relatives, trying to avoid talks with her in-laws and going to sleep in her room closing all the doors whenever such stupid fighting discussions are going on. She doesn't comment and behaves as if she doesn't understand what the in-laws are talking about. Guys she is really frustrated and never want her in-laws to come back again to her home. She doesn't have trust also on her in-laws and even doesn't trust her husband fully as obviously for him his parents and sister are everything. She from her side just tries to speak good whenever she has to speak and at other times just remain quiet and do her work.

My friend is fedup of her in-laws...