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he was very clear that he will not have fun time for 2 yrs or so as he is doing very very very advanced studies. Everything needs to wait...travelling, socializing, shopping for home etc.
before marriage only my SIL (his wife) agreed and was ok with.
But now, she keeps making new plans - for fun...including travel. My bro keep explaining her that he cannot afford to miss his studies as it is very tough. 34 hrs in 24 hrs he works (yes i mean it)
He is ok with ocasional outing for a day or two, but not for big vacation and not much outing very often.....no shopping time to get house in shipshape or hobby shopping (say shopping for hiking)
SIL would listen to him and understand and then will go back to her original self in a week. Over all she is nice (knock on wood, so good so far)
she is highly qualified as well n working....
how should my brother handle her nicely (since telling her upfront nicely has not worked well) so these demands stop - and it is a question of another 14 months. After that if he finds a job(and that will happen only if he does well now and SIL knows it) then things will be super cool for them
My bro's problem with SIL
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