mercredi 1 octobre 2014

Pain...

Pain..

All Pain craves, is to be felt,

As it cannot be ignored nor is it easy to forget.

It surpass lines of orderly and brings back those buried memories,

To play with our emotion and to make us feel dismal with depress.


With out pain there is no gain they say..

but how sure are we of that I bay!

There is only start but no end I know..

all we can do is mull over and let it grow..


Cure is the antagonist of pain,

which never fights to reside with in us.

no matter how much we suffer,

I know the province of pain never differ.


I now don’t have the urge to fight it out anymore..

I know I have lost the battle to the core.

all I now want to do is accept it with embrace..

for I now haven’t left in me any pride nor any grace.






Pain...

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KG 1 admission in Indian schools for the academic year 2015-16

Hi friends,

How many of you have started thinking about your little prince/ princess's KG1 admission for the academic year 2015-16?? My daughter has turned 3 and I am planning to send her to Kindergarten next year. I contacted DPS, BPS, Rajagiri schools. They all may start their admissions by Oct end or Nov..Please do update about the admission dates of any Indian schools if and when you come to know about it. I will also update the same here so that it could be of help to other parents also.

Happy parenting!!


Regards,

Vidya






KG 1 admission in Indian schools for the academic year 2015-16

High...

Hi,

I looked at my blog after a long time today and realized that I havent written there for ages (not like I used to, when I was single and felt that I will never find love.) Is it because I used to write only when I was sad and now that I am happy and married I dont find the need to express my feelings? Do writers always have to be tragic, cant they be someone who found love and happiness in their lives? Or is it because I am also so caught up with work that I have forgotten one of my passions? Whatever maybe the reason, I realized one thing - I will regret the most if I dont take up the pen again.


So I decided that I will write again - renew myself and what better forum than Indusladies to rekindle my passion of short poetries. I have already posted a story here, but short poetry has always been my first love.


First, I am sharing with you a poetry that I wrote a few years back. Writing this helped me a lot to deal with certain times in my life. This is dedicated to all you lovely ladies who are high on life and have never lost hope in spite of whatever life throws at them.


Its one of those days....


Different from the ones' that I have most days,

I just realized that I am high...

High on life...

This same life that most of the times gives me a low..

Days when things just dont look right..

Nights when I want someone's arms around me and all I find is me all alone..


Still..I look around and sense that still life gives me a high...

Coz I have hope that tomorrow I will finally find what I am looking for...

Till then I find myself in all my friends who have been there through the toughest of times...

Laughing, crying, learning from our mistakes and realizing that yes, this is life...


This is what gives me a high...






High...

Obsessive - manipulative MIL wants to see baby on skype everyday

Hi ladies,

i am mother of a 9 month old baby. We live in UK and I get to manage household chores like making breakfast, lunch, dinner. I also developed Rheumatoid arthritis post delivery, although it's not too bad now, I am not yet back in normal health. Now I have an extremely manipulative MIL , it seems a fortune teller had predicted that she'd die suddenly of a heart attack and that her time is nearing. She keeps repeating this story to DH and I see him get really depressed and later striving to fulfill all her wishes. Due to this, my marital life has never been peaceful. At the moment, she wants me getting on skype everyday to see the baby. Once she gets on skype I have be online and show her the baby for minimum one hour . In addition to howling some nursery rhymes and singing some songs to the baby.. (it's more like howling than singing ) she keeps checking what I made for breakfast , if it's something traditional then she approves else if it's just a sandwich there's strong disapproval. Then she asks what I fed the baby, again if it's something non- traditional like mashed potatoes and pepper she tells me in a dominant tone to add salt.. She wants to be on skype everyday so that the baby doesn't forget her and she wants to ensure that the baby grows up as per wishes .. Now it seems like she is the mom and I'm keeping the baby on rent with me for sometime.. She also has been trying to get me to stop breastfeeding the baby ever since the child was just a month old.. I hate her interference and I also hate her to the core for other things that she has done in the past. I would like it best to maintain my distance . But now hubby is asking me to talk to my parents every alternate day and talk to his parents every other day !! Inspite of me explaining it to him ! I never wanna get into an argument with mil coz she has no limits or boundaries and is cheap. Her son is not aware of her true colors. When on skype I just try to remain quiet to keep the peace. Because it would look terrible if I were to say something to her and she would blow it out of proportion and convey that to her son and badmouth me to all their relatives. She can bring out tears to her advantage and fil is like a hand-in-glove with mil.. No support from him too.. What do you think is it still right to keep avoiding her calls when I'm so uncomfortable ?? What's your opinion ??






Obsessive - manipulative MIL wants to see baby on skype everyday

Lazy mother in law.. still she feels she is the best..pls help

Married for 4 years, with one son of 2.5 year old. we stay abroad and visit my mother in law once every year for 1 month. Sometimes she comes to visit us for 3 months or so.

Now she is with us abroad for 3 months visit visa. The problem is she is very lazy.. gets up at 11 am then dont eat breakfast and just see tv.. (dont even bath).. baths in in the evening. Dont do anything. I am working and leaves early morning then come back in the evening . My son is in the baby sitting till evening which is sad even though his grand mother is at home. MIL cant look after my son due to her laziness.. even i am scared to leave him .. what if something happen to him then she will put her hands up.

I dont want her to do any work or anything at least she can try to stop chanting about her excellent character and how she raised her kids etc which is really irritating if repeated every hour.


She keeps on comparing me with other daughter in laws such as my friends DIL gives them necklace, gets up early and looks after them so well. takes good care of each n everythings etc etc.. list goes on..


She always wants to cry about her daughter.. she is not having good life and how much she is struggling with her life... infact she is married to an engineer who earns well and she is not even working.. full time in house only job she does is taking her daughter for dance class, school & tuitions etc. which is a big job for her and ofcourse cooking - as if iam buying my food from outside always.. I cook after coming from work - no maids but my difficulites all goes in vain.


I start ignoring wht she says and try not to concentrate on her phrases but she comes to my room to talk to me about her friends and her daughter - comparisons..

I am fed up .. its been just 4 days now and i have full 3 months left to spend with her.. give me some suggestions how to deal with her during her stay.






Lazy mother in law.. still she feels she is the best..pls help

Ideas needed...

Hi friends,

I have received an invitation to visit my friend's home for navaratri Pooja.. This is going to be my first experience 'golu'.. I have no idea about this at all... What I have to gift her? Is there any custom like that?.. She is a tamil brahmin...


thanks in advance,

aishu






Ideas needed...